Boyfriend is on a dating website
I understand that we’re all human and we notice the opposite sex, but I just have lots of questions running through my mind now like “was he being genuine at the beginning?
”, “is he such a sexual being that when I’m not there, his eyes wander and therefore will he cheat on me?
I told him how it really upset me and how disrespectful I found it, especially as it was a dating website.
He responded with saying that although he didn’t see anything wrong in it “it’s nothing”, he could see that it had upset me and so when I asked him to delete it, he went ahead and deleted his account.
That includes taking down all dating profiles in good faith to see where the relationship will go. It would be one thing if someone in a relationship was on all of the time. Many people are finding love on social media, but Tinder is a dating (and even known as a hookup) app.
The moment you think someone’s cheating or looking elsewhere is the moment you realize something isn’t right. If you’re in a relationship and someone is active on a dating app, guess what? I don’t care about the percentages, it’s wrong, period.
The problem Nina is something’s off in your relationship. If you trusted him, you wouldn’t have created a fake profile after two months.
You know that a relationship is based on mutual trust. I can’t tell you to break up with someone if you think he’s your soulmate. So you can continue to be quiet and log onto your fake profile to see the exact moment he last logged on and make yourself sick in the process, or try to find someone who will think you’re amazing enough to ditch the dating apps to be in your arms. I can only hope that you take your fake profile down and never create another one to try to snoop on a guy you really like.
After this all came out about him looking at dating sites, he seemed to take this all back and reminded me that he is heterosexual.I found this out after he started to write something in a search engine on his laptop when I was sitting next to him, which brought up his history in the search bar and I asked “do you still look at …(dating website)”.